Dear Cindy: What about sex with younger men inspired you to start MakeLoveNotPorn?

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I know you’ve said MakeLoveNotPorn came out of your personal experience dating younger men. What exactly did you encounter in bed with younger men that inspired you to start MLNP? 

Before I answer this, it’s important to say that MakeLoveNotPorn was not inspired by ALL the younger men I’ve dated. I’ve dated young men who’ve had absolutely no need of MakeLoveNotPorn whatsoever - including young men who had had very few lovers and limited sexual experience before me. Everyone’s sexual upbringing is a product of circumstance, and some people are lucky to have had parents be open with them about sex and how great it is; early experiences with partners they were very much in love with and able to explore sex happily together; educational opportunities that set them on the right path. Many years ago in my youth, some of the greatest sex I’ve had was with a young man who had studied abroad in China, and taken to heart some ancient Chinese work of erotic literature that advised that a woman should have seven orgasms to the man’s one. I benefited, big time 😂